How to Develop Your Own Personality

Ok, this article probably could've been entitled "How to be yourself" or something similar. The idea is, I wrote this article to help you out to figure out what kind of a person you are and to feel good with yourself

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→ Turn your senses off. For a little while and then, possibly forever, stop caring about what others say about you. That means "You're not cool enough" or "If you don't have a cell phone, you can't be our friend" or "Those clothes are stupid" or "That thing you do is pointless" are not true. Think that you never heard them and if you ever will, they won't mean anything. Accept the fact that we're all different a little bit

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→ Look into yourself. Start asking yourself any questions you can think of about yourself. "What do I like to do?" "How am I towards others?" "Am I artistic?" "Do I like to be in the outer world?"Determine, basically, anything you can about yourself. Whether you like arts or math, whether you like being in the outdoors or not, what movie/book/video game theme you like, what jobs get you, etc.

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→ Compare yourself to different movie personalities, from any type of movies. That won't make you a cliché. Movies are based on reality, not vice versa. You may see yourself as a math genius, as a party maniac, as a book lover, as a gamer, as a skateboarder, as an innocent kid, as a werewolf who is quiet and protects his friends, as a loner who doesn't have many friends, but pursues his talents and interests, as a megalomaniac who seeks attention, or many more. No matter how you are, you are great. Remember that

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→ Avoid being a conformist. Don't do anything you don't want to, just because someone tells you to. Listen to yourself, do what you like, be how you are and you'll find your people. True friends will never try to change you. You can listen to other opinions, but don't follow them if you don't want to

TIPS

→ If you feel like you identify with somebody, try to be their friends. It's usually rewarding

→ Don't feel lonely. It will be a little hard at first, but once you know who you are, you'll find your friends

→ Be confident. No, seriously, don't doubt what your heart tells you ANY second

Warnings

→ Remember, not to copy another personality. If you feel similar to a movie character, that'll make it easier , but remember, you gotta be YOURSELF