How to Get a Girl to Like You if You Are Disabled (for Teenagers)

Do you have your sights set on a certain girl? Is she all you've ever dreamed of? Though are you afraid your disability will get in the way of ever having a relationship with her? Well don't fret, read on and follow these simple steps that will help you on your way to getting that girl!

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→ Be confident about yourself. It's okay to have a disability. You are a unique and desirable person. Believe in yourself and that you have something to offer her. Recognize and capitalize on your personal strengths, such as if you are a great talker- then entertain her. If you're a joker, then amuse her. If you've got a nice smile- then show it to her when the time seems right.

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→ Be kind to her. Love her and treat her with ultimate respect. Many girls feel undervalued, or as though boys don't really hold a great deal of respect for them, doing this could help you stand out from the crowd. Spend time with her in as many sort of places and situations as you can and make sure she feels very relaxed and comfortable around/with you. Try talking about things that she is interested in so she will be more comfortable with the conversation and emphasize with her. If she feels as though she can talk to you and you understand, then she's more likely to want to talk to you in the future (above other people) when she's got an issue.

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→ Get her attention. Try making eye contact (if possible/when it seems right), catching her eye, and smiling at her and then consider breaking it again. Too much eye-contact is overkill, but she needs to know that you 'like' her as more than a friend. Use open body language so that she knows you're interested. If she reciprocates, mention meeting on a date outside of your usual settings/ away from your social group.

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→ Don't focus on your disability. It's there, but it's not important right now. While it may influence your life in an everyday sense, it's YOU who is chatting to her, not your disability. Spark a conversation about anything which seems right, her cute backpack, her cool science presentation, the fact that her sister is friends with your sister, ask what she did at the weekend... The opportunities are endless.

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→ Realize the things that girls love. People that are pleasant to be around, people that make them laugh, people that are laid back and easy to talk to. Listen to her thoughts, encourage her dreams, and let her know that you like talking to her.

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→ Don't hide your talents from her; whether they be card tricks or robotics skills. Mention your interests as you get to know her, and show her a thing or two. Encourage her to show her talents too. This way, she can get to know the real you, and you can get to know her better.

TIPS

→ Once you two become close friends (or more than friends) remind her that she is special/important to you from time to time in a non obsessive way.

→ Remember, if she doesn't accept you because of your disability, then don't waste your time on her. You deserve better.

→ If she appears disinterested, or if she says she's not interested, drop it. This happens. Just like not every girl on the street is your type, not every guy is her type. It doesn't mean you're unattractive, just that she wasn't a good match. Keep looking and Miss Right will come your way!

Warnings

→ It can be exciting to be spending time with someone you like, but try not to smother her. Especially when you first meet her, don't try to spend hours Facebook chatting with her every night. Avoid stalker-ish behavior and pushing her into things, because that won't endear you to her, it'll drive her away.